How do you handle the EX?

I am pretty sure everyone has encountered this situation. Its actually very hard to avoid sometimes. You are now in a new relationship and you notice the ex/gf or bf is calling/texting frequently. Making sly remarks on the FB wall, tweeting inside jokes or just being a bother. You have now entered CASES OF THE EX!!! lol

Ladies, I knoooow how it feels to be in a relationship and have the ex gf stalking you and your man. Trust me, I can relate all to well. I try my hardest not to care about my bf's ex. It just makes you look insecure and childish. Its too stressful. BUT on the other hand, it shouldn't be a concern. I say that because if you are in a relationship with someone and their ex is popping up all the damn time or has nothing or no one better to do, then there's an issue. And if your spouse is answering late night phone calls or spending 'time' with that ex when they should clearly be with you....then there you have it. Now I understand that some relationships end well and some ppl were friends before lovers and want to continue that friendship. Thats fine with me, but dont make it a concern or something that will have me thinking about whats the REAL DEAL.

Is it ok for your boo and their ex to be communicating? Are you secure within yourself and your relationship to not care about what they do? Are you lying to yourself right now....lol Keep it real and leave a comment.
Besos
Kry$