Crazy Chicks Posing as Ladies

Recently I encountered a situation *in my Kevin Hart voice*. I don't usually deal with the girlfriends or ex-gf's of my ex-bf or current beau. I don't think that is my job and I'm a non-confrontational person when something has nothing to do with me. But recently, a girl (i don't know what else to call her) started harassing me through phone text messages, on Facebook and stopping by a place where I was. I wont go into detail of why she is harassing me but lets just say, she is bitter about a recent break-up. Anyway, while talking to the guy about the situation, he will stand by her and say that she is a lady and she is just hurt by recent events. He called her 'a woman scorned.' Ok...thats very understandable. I mean all women have been hurt by love in some way and the crazies came out in some shape. I'm not saying you went all Machete on a dude but you may have had crazy thoughts or even drove by his car with a bat. I don't know. I'm just throwing that out there. I had to disagree STRONGLY about this 'lady.' I don't think she deserves that title. And heres why....

A real woman does not show up unannounced to your home, break windows, pepper spray you and beat you up because you broke off your 1yr relationship. No matter what happens in a relationship, no matter how mad and angry you become at your ex, there is no reason you should be violent towards a person or show your ass. Its unacceptable and will land you in jail if the male is bold enough. This, especially, is true for a parent or a woman over the age of 25. I can see why a chick under that age will wild out because she is still wet behind the ears but if you are older, grow up! Me and the male had a huge disagreement because he said he deals with nothing but ladies BUT i had to cut him off there because thats not a lady. A lady will bow out gracefully and pray that you get hurt in the end. (or is that just me?) She will ignore your calls, block your number, throw out all memorabilia and move on with her life. Yes, she will be sad and mad but at least she can leave knowing in her mind that she was the best you ever had. Just like a friend told me, they always come back. Maybe not now or 6 months from now, but he will come back. And by that time, hopefully you look good and have a strapping fellow on your arm. Build a bridge and get over it. Life is too short to be harassing someone over a man that broke it off with you. Its tacky and sooo 1994 Laurena Bobbit.