This is a topic that hits very close to home for me. I have encountered males that were great guys but there was always that 'thing' that I just couldn't get past and there is where it ended. You go out for a date, you enjoy each others company but maybe he speaks funny or he smells. She probably wore a messed up girdle or talked on her cellphone excessively throughout the date. Sometimes those small things can really turn a person off. Sometimes its easy to just never call that person again. But sometimes its not that easy.
Are you confused about where you stand? Ladies and gents here are some sure fire ways to know that you are in the friend zone...
1. She finds it very comfortable or appropriate to talk about other guys with you.
In this case the girl feels very comfortable to complain her mixed emotions about the guys or even her current relationship with other guys. When it comes to this point she thinks that you will never be one of her guys but rather one of her friends only. In this way the girl can never feel emotionally attached to you or thinks any sexual idea that will complicate your friendship.
In this case the girl feels very comfortable to complain her mixed emotions about the guys or even her current relationship with other guys. When it comes to this point she thinks that you will never be one of her guys but rather one of her friends only. In this way the girl can never feel emotionally attached to you or thinks any sexual idea that will complicate your friendship.
2. They love to share everything with you and not shy or embarrass to tell you anything bad or good about them.
For the girl’s rule sharing everything to the guy they like is not they wanted to do. They hold back all the dirty ideas about them and will show only the good side of them. In this case if the girl reveals her deepest darkest secrets to you it means that your only a friend. If you become the human diary of the girl that will keeps her secrets then you are on the Friend Zone.
For the girl’s rule sharing everything to the guy they like is not they wanted to do. They hold back all the dirty ideas about them and will show only the good side of them. In this case if the girl reveals her deepest darkest secrets to you it means that your only a friend. If you become the human diary of the girl that will keeps her secrets then you are on the Friend Zone.
3. There is no physical tensions or no banter.
If there’s a desire to touch or say something to her and she didn’t reply then there is no physical attractions in you. The physical tension is apparent when both of you feels attracted to one another. If the girl does not think any physical attraction to you then I am sure you are really deep on the Friend zone.
If there’s a desire to touch or say something to her and she didn’t reply then there is no physical attractions in you. The physical tension is apparent when both of you feels attracted to one another. If the girl does not think any physical attraction to you then I am sure you are really deep on the Friend zone.
4. They say: “You are like a brother to me.”
If you hear this line that ”you know what you kinda like my brother to me” then you are on the friend zone. Your aim is into the relationship but it goes to the point that you are very close with each other and you can protect her, make her safe then you are truly her friend. The girls feels that you are her secrets keeper and makes it hard for you to change from a friend to a lover.
If you hear this line that ”you know what you kinda like my brother to me” then you are on the friend zone. Your aim is into the relationship but it goes to the point that you are very close with each other and you can protect her, make her safe then you are truly her friend. The girls feels that you are her secrets keeper and makes it hard for you to change from a friend to a lover.
5. They say “I love having a guy best friend and you are one of them.”
It is like having a brotherly line. If you want to go out with her and you feel that it is a date but the girl feels its only a friendly or casual hanging out then you are categorized as her best friend. Some rare cases best friends ended up in a relationship but mostly the girls will keep you in her friend’s list. You can be her best friend if you are her boyfriend and the best man that they will have.
It is like having a brotherly line. If you want to go out with her and you feel that it is a date but the girl feels its only a friendly or casual hanging out then you are categorized as her best friend. Some rare cases best friends ended up in a relationship but mostly the girls will keep you in her friend’s list. You can be her best friend if you are her boyfriend and the best man that they will have.
6. They do not put on effort to improve their appearance.
If the girl does not give any effort to go to the parlor or have a make up or not afraid to wear this when you guys will see each other then you are absolutely on the friend zone. This is a sign that the girl is not interested to wear her new mini skirt or sexy tops when she see you. She feels that you are like her pajamas or bedtime outfit that she feels very comfortable. It could be very difficult for you to get her from friend to girlfriend.
If the girl does not give any effort to go to the parlor or have a make up or not afraid to wear this when you guys will see each other then you are absolutely on the friend zone. This is a sign that the girl is not interested to wear her new mini skirt or sexy tops when she see you. She feels that you are like her pajamas or bedtime outfit that she feels very comfortable. It could be very difficult for you to get her from friend to girlfriend.
7. Doing something while you are talking to her or she is busy talking or listening to something.
If the girl does not give you her full attention while having a conversation to her then you are on the friend zone. For example, if you say something interesting but the girl is busy doing her thing like texting to her friends, chatting then she is comfortably doing this to you.
If the girl does not give you her full attention while having a conversation to her then you are on the friend zone. For example, if you say something interesting but the girl is busy doing her thing like texting to her friends, chatting then she is comfortably doing this to you.
8. She does not look or find time to be with you.
If you want to go out with her or to be with her the whole time but she have any reasons not to go out with you then your probably on the friend zone. She sees you when you guys go out together with your group of friends. She does not spend time alone with you but rather chose to spend time with her group then you are zoned to be her friend.
If you want to go out with her or to be with her the whole time but she have any reasons not to go out with you then your probably on the friend zone. She sees you when you guys go out together with your group of friends. She does not spend time alone with you but rather chose to spend time with her group then you are zoned to be her friend.
9. They want you to be their good and best counselor.
If the girls are having problem with their family, other guys, other friends and you are her shoulder to cry on every time they feel depressed then you are surely on the friend zone because they can see you as her brother or her counselor. Girls don’t usually do this to the guy that they fell in love with because they are scared the the guy will feel turn off. They feel secured to you as her friend that you can’t say anything bad to her.
If the girls are having problem with their family, other guys, other friends and you are her shoulder to cry on every time they feel depressed then you are surely on the friend zone because they can see you as her brother or her counselor. Girls don’t usually do this to the guy that they fell in love with because they are scared the the guy will feel turn off. They feel secured to you as her friend that you can’t say anything bad to her.
10. You praises or flattery words are appreciated but not enough to feel them good.
If you praises the girl that she is pretty today or she looks good at her hair, dress, or anything she will wear, the girl can say to thank you so much for appreciating my beauty but does not mean anything to her. Compared to the guy that she likes when they say something flattery then the girl will feel happy and rejoice for the compliments. You are just on the friend zone if she does not feel a lot of meaning to her.
If you praises the girl that she is pretty today or she looks good at her hair, dress, or anything she will wear, the girl can say to thank you so much for appreciating my beauty but does not mean anything to her. Compared to the guy that she likes when they say something flattery then the girl will feel happy and rejoice for the compliments. You are just on the friend zone if she does not feel a lot of meaning to her.
Is this a bad thing? Yes, it is a form of rejection but you can remain friends and move on to the next one, right? Personally, I think that being in the friend zone is not a bad thing. Yes you are hurt that he/she doesnt want you like you want them but no love is lost. This has happened to me but I learned to move forward. Knowing that that person will be there for light company isnt horrible. It may not be what I want at the time but we are adults. Time to suck it up and keep trucking.
*besos*
Stay Tuned for Part Deux: How do we escape the friend zone?
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