EEK! Get me out of the Friend Zone!

SO now that you have figured out that you are in the friend zone, lets figure out how to escape. I am not necessarily going to give you pointers on how to snag the girl/guy BUT I am going to help you escape that friend zone and either move on or get them to want YOU!

1. STOP BEING NEEDY!
There is nothing worse than a guy/girl who constantly feels the need to be all up under their crush. It is pathetic and annoying. This is probably a reason why he/she doesn't want to date you. You seem desperate and you are pushing them away. You are also placing this person on a pedestal. (you all know what i really wanted to say i.e. 40 Year Old Virgin)

2. Stop being the Nice Guy or Sweet Girl
Speaking from experience, the nice guy is just that...nice. Hes always interested in what you like or where you want to go or what you want to do. She's always remembering EVERYTHING  about you so that when you randomly say what you want to do, she can actually finish your sentence because she memorized your favorite foods. *puking* This is all fairy tale, 8th grade BULL! I am not saying become an asshole and treat her like a bish but don't hide the person you truly are. Some ppl are really that nice but come on! Its 2011. I would hope as adults, we aren't hiding our true emotions to get a date. Weirdo.

3. Shes just not that into you
Figure out that this chick/dude is just not that into you. You are obviously more into this situation than the other person. You are wasting your damn time! This is the point when you need to open your heart/mind for someone who will fully appreciate you.

Sometimes you notice that once you back off from a potential, they start to feel neglected. They start contacting you with the 'hey haven't heard from you in awhile', 'hey i miss you' 'lets hang out soon'...don't let that crap fool you. So now that you aren't sniffing their cracks, they want you back. Do you think they realized they had a good thing or are they being selfish and wanting the attention back? Don't fall for the okedoke ppl... A person will show you how they truly feel IF they are interested. Open your eyes and look for the signs. If you can truly tell that they aren't feeling you, move forward. Don't let your feelings get hurt because that person cant realize how awesomazing you are ;-)

*besos*
Kry$